When I first left Scotland, the least expensive travel from London to Scotland was by overnight bus. It left Victoria bus station at eight in the evening and arrived in Glasgow about ten in the morning.
In the wee small hours the bus would roll through narrow streets of sleeping villages, mountains and vast expanse of fields.
Here and there, a light would shine in an upstairs window,feet from the bus window. I always wondered what was happening that had a family awake when the world around was in deep sleep.
In those days babies were more often born at home, usually in the night. Equally often, it seemed life would come to an end in the night and a final breath drawn.
My kids and I spent a summer camped out at Preston Lake. We came home if there was a storm, to do laundry and at the week-end when the beach and amenities were packed with day trippers.
I spent long days stretched on a chair, watching the kids in the water.During the week, we had the place to ourselves.There was lots of action they could be at,other than the beach. Sometimes, I could close my eyes and just listen.
At the beginning of the summer, it seemed the air was throbbing and humming.I could even see it shimmer above the sand. In the last week of summer, all was silent and still. .
Without offering any kind of learned scientific jargon, it seems to me, life and the earth has a combined rhythm. A time for living and a time for dying. A time when breathing slows and sometimes stops.
There's always a point in an election ,when something brings me to an abrupt halt. Long enough to wonder: why am I doing this?
It was yesterday.
I made a phone call, stated my name and launched into the reason for my call. The elderly voice at the other end gave me pause. I realised I had the wrong number and apologized.He had to be an Aurora resident. I didn't cut the conversation off. I've found people mostly cordial and willing to exchange civilities and elderly folk pleased to chat.
He was more than willing. He said I contributed nothing to this Council or the one before it. He had nothing good to say about the current Mayor either but he charged me with creating the same problem for the previous Mayor.
He told me he is a lot older than I am (83 today) and spent 42 years in business and knew his stuff. He told me he had had a visit from and made a contribution to a mayoralty candidate and had his sign on his lawn...twice.
He couldn't prove it wasn't kids who stole the sign but he was sure it wasn't.
I suggested he should speak to the former Mayor and get the real deal. We did exchange a few civilities but he concluded by noting, I shouldn't feel sorry for him, he has lots of interests and activities and considering it was a wrong number I'd spent a lot of time talking to him.
My daughter dropped off a campaign leaflet in his mail box this morning wishing him a Happy Birthday.
Of course I know he's not alone. He is intelligent,of strong opinion and was reacting to what he had heard.
I put the phone down and thought. WTH. I gotta tell you. He pretty well spoiled my day.
It's that kind of shared, common experience that brings political candidates together in what is frequently referred to as "The Old Boys Club" (before old girls got involved)
I remember the late Stew Burnett , the Reeve of the Township of Whitchurch,who sat beside me in the County Council, telling me that's why we shouldn't attack each other's reputation.
The call I'd been trying to make was to St. Maximillian Kolbe High School. I attended the Awards Ceremony the night before but didn't get my hands on a program. I didn't join the procession for dignitaries. These events tend to be lengthy.There's a limit to how long I can sit on a small hard seat.
I didn't want to be obvious leaving in the middle of the program. I sat elsewhere and left at 8.30pm.
I planned to write a post on the exemplary performance of a large percentage of the student body which of course is a credit to the teachers and the Spirit of the school. I needed a program to get it right.
I still haven't got the program.
I don't want to ruin another day for you Ev, but I read on the Banner online about the harassment complaint, seems the CAO was shocked!!! Shocked!!! that you wrote about it in your blog. I would be shocked!!!! if that tidy little quote hadn't been prepared for him by hmmm.......let's think now, I've got it! A candidate for Mayor!
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Ev, Blog has its upside... and downside.
ReplyDeleteSometimes we have to admit that having an editor is, as Martha would say, "a good thing".
Don't be discouraged. I admire your fortitude.
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